the house (yes the sky IS this BLUE)
what we do when we're not watching TV and surfing the net...God bless this beautiful country!
photos by Trish VanderKooy (thanks Trish, also for the visit!)
Had I understood the choices at hand, I may not have chosen to have these beautiful children when there is so much exciting work to be done in the world. The days I have time to pursue my other interests are the same days that I feel okay about choosing also motherhood. Here, we attempt to blog about our 5-year-old's questions AND our own questions/ideas around issues that we need to be involved in to complement our parenting.
and oils and blessings for belly, big sister, Mama, and Papa
but most of all the company of friends
photos by BEN DEPP
That's why i've been doing belly-dancing-on-all-fours for an HOUR a day!
photos by: Hillary Prag and Matthieu Van Geest
She started asking questions:
The MIDWIVES came to visit Friday. In Senegal (and probably France & Quebec etc.) a midwife is called a "Sage Femme". Here in Haiti one of the ways they are called is also "Sage Femme" if they are trained and "Femme Sage" if they aren't really "trained". Friday we met Stephanie, one of 3 Sages Femmes who is hosted by Haitian Ministries for at least the next 6 months to train Haitian Staff at Haitian Ministries. (Stephanie was delivered to our house by two Femme Sage, Beth & Tara, of Haitian Minsitries, and Paige, a 14 year old DOULA).
I can't think of a more empowering idea for Haitian women!!!! Stephanie, who had been in Haiti 2.5 days casually measured my bump, pulse, found the head, feet, arms, and heartbeat and then showed us the babe's position using Gabriela's Dora doll. And then she sat really close to me, looking me in the eye and told me candidly since you're an athlete, you'll love the high of giving birth but "birth is not a pain you can just push through". "This pain, you'll have to accept and embrace if you want the baby to come out of you." And, she said, double up on the avocados and find some liver to eat!
PORT-AU-PRINCE, HAITI—Emphasizing the country's warm tropical climate, vibrant culture, and long-term plans to cultivate farmland capable of sustaining actual crops, the Haitian Olympic Committee formally announced its bid Monday to host the 2216 Summer Games.

Officials say the Games will be broadcast via satellite should the country happen to develop a space program by then.
Organizers of the LXXXI Olympiad, which would be held in the capital city of Port- au-Prince, said the event will showcase the many attractions that are sure to be conceptualized, financed, and constructed over the next 207 years.
"These Olympics will be the greatest the world has ever seen, provided inflation doesn't render the Gourd worthless and we manage to stumble into some kind of lasting stability in the next 20 decades or so," declared committee president Jean-Edouard Baker, standing beside a stack of burning tire shavings where he believes the Olympic flame may one day be housed. "2216 is our time."
Haitian leaders believe Port-au-Prince to be the ideal location for the games due to a number of civic improvements that could, in theory, be made there.
According to Baker, the city will try to compensate for its lack of passable roads and safe bridges by building a high-speed rail system which, "with a little luck," might someday connect to an Olympic village.
"This is the place where we may be able to possibly erect an aquatics center," said Baker, gesturing to a partially submerged field piled high with rusted-out Jeeps. "We're hoping that within a century or two we'll be able to raise enough food to feed enough workers to move enough dirt to make a hole deep enough to contain an Olympic-size pool."
Added Baker, "We don't have much in the way of potable water, but that hole ought to fill on its own when the next hurricane strikes."
Representatives from the International Olympic Committee flew to Port-au-Prince Monday to survey the proposed site, landing on the country's longest of four paved runways. A brief and heavily armored tour of the city's marathon route gave planners the chance to show visiting delegates the many wonders that may eventually make up Haiti.
A banquet was held that afternoon in a dilapidated structure that local officials plan to tear down and rebuild as a multipurpose stadium. They said they hope to name the facility after a great leader who will rise to power at some point in the future—perhaps in the 22nd century—and bring peace and prosperity to the Haitian people.
Between bursts of automatic gunfire and the frantic screams of U.N. peacekeepers deployed in the area, Haiti made its case to the IOC.
"We want at some point to begin neutering the stray-animal population, so that elite runners from around the world will not have to leap over so many frail and lethargic dogs in order to cross the finish line," urban designer Antoinne Darbouze told IOC representatives. "And yes, once we can get our hands on enough asphalt, we'll have roads in places where they're absolutely necessary."
A local artisan also gave a presentation at the banquet, showing attendees how replicas of Olympic medals could be carved from indigenous fruits and then dyed colors that are similar to gold, silver, and bronze.
"By 2216, we hope that Haiti will be an inspirational place for the world's greatest athletes to compete," said René Préval, president of Haiti, a nation whose government has been repeatedly ranked as the most corrupt in the world. "And who knows, at that point our great-great-great-grandchildren may have eliminated the near-constant threat of protozoal diarrhea."
Despite the many challenges faced by the small island nation, the IOC remained confident that Haiti is, in the sense that it has not yet been officially eliminated from consideration, a real contender for the games.
"Haiti has a long way to go to meet our standards," said IOC president Jacques Rogge, pushing away a goat that had entered through a hole in the wall and was craning its neck to reach his plate. "They need to do a lot to build up their sporting facilities and hotel infrastructure, in addition to improving environmental conditions, developing a financial sector, and quelling civil unrest."
"We're not going to make any decisions for the next 200 years," Rogge continued. "Though after seeing Haiti firsthand, I can honestly say the country faces some stiff competition from Atlantis."
http://www.theonion.com/content/news/haiti_makes_bid_for_2216_olympics
The transition to Part Two was great fun as well. The three of us spent the weekend in Toronto – riding the streetcar, visiting Kensington Market, walking around downtown, eating Vietnamese soup and, Gabriela’s highlight, visiting as many parks as we could. If
Part Two involves being apart for part of the next few months. E and G are staying in Canada with visits to Toronto, Winnipeg, Fargo (ND), Kitchener, Sarnia and probably a few other locations. This will include visits to family and friends, teaching pre-natal yoga, eating strawberries and all other local bounty, dance camp for G, and, of course, the parks. Matt is back at work in

Don't get me wrong, I'm glad that Rev. George and Chuck are coming. They should come. They should come to learn, help THEMSELVES, and share and maybe, just maybe, they will come, and then go back and tell the people in Shenandoah that Haitians are wise people, thrifty and resourceful people that have come out of physical slavery only to decline into economic slavery with failed "aid" and unjust economic and trade policies. Maybe they'll tell the people in the Antioch Church that the reduction of the subsidies on imported rice totally destroyed local production, which has had a major impact on farm incomes (not to mention nutrition, national pride, and respect for farmers) and which has forced many farmers to rely on cutting trees for basic survival, almost as much as after the US government exterminated the Creole pig. Maybe they'll learn that it's not excess seeds or clothes or medicine that are going to save Haitians from eating these f%^ing mud cookies that everyone can't stop talking about.
Look, I don't have all the answers. But what I DO know is that unless WE, including ME, unless we stop trying to figure it all out, to come up with the magic bullet, unless we stop trying to save Haiti, STOP sending our "excess" to Haiti (didn't Jesus say something about "first fruits"?), I really believe that Haiti is destined for continued failure. And it IS a failed state. Despite the continued efforts of the average Haitian to survive and live, the actions of the state are more often than not abominable. I admit to that. I'm not trying to say that Haiti is doing great, where everyone is eating and everyone is happy. There is misery here. And the biggest miseries are lack of trust and confidence in ourselves, each other, the state, international organizations, trade, and "aid". But here also, there is a boatload . . . wait, let me not use "boatload" in relation to Haiti. There is a plethora of potential in Haiti, in Haitians. How do we unlock the potential? Love your neighbour as yourself. Treat others how you want to be treated...with honesty, integrity, equality.
I believe that Rev. George and Chuck can do something good for Haiti. I really do. And I hope they have a good trip here. And I hope that some of their seeds grow but I also hope that some don't and that they take the time to understand why. And I hope they take the time to listen to people they encounter. Listen to their stories. Listen to their truths. Listen to their ideas. Listen to their dreams. And slowly we, me, Chuck, George, and maybe you too, will learn from and teach each other how go forward from here.
For people who read our blog from time to time, you know that among other things we attempt to tell more of the Haitian story, than what you get from CNN or most other popular media. This morning I saw this headline: "Guyana Lower Than Haiti on Latest Economic Freedom Ranks" The story is not about Haiti, it's about how Guyana's economic freedom is not all that good. But to make their point, they say that it is EVEN WORSE than Haiti. So not only is the situation of economic freedom bad in Guyana, it's SO bad that its WORSE than Haiti. Meaning that Haiti has become the bar by which all bad things are measured.
Sad, so sad.
Guyana Lower Than Haiti on Latest Economic Freedom Ranks
CaribWorldNews, NEW YORK, NY, Weds. Jan. 14, 2009: When it comes to economic freedom globally, Guyana is even lower than Haiti, the country deemed the poorest in the world.
According to the latest Index of Economic Freedom World Rankings, a compilation of economic freedom globally by the Wall Street Journal and the Heritage Foundation, Guyana is at 155 on the overall list, lower than Haiti at 147. Overall, it scored 48.4 on the economic freedom scale, meaning its freedom is repressed.
This makes it the worst CARICOM country for economic freedom in several areas, including business, trade, government size, investment, property rights, corruption and labor.